Female ejaculation (also known colloquially as
squirting
or gushing)
refers to the expulsion of noticeable
amounts of clear fluid by women from the paraurethral
ducts
and/or urethra during orgasm. The exact
source of the fluid is debated,
although some researchers believe it originates from the Skene's gland.
There are no standards or rules for this occurrence. It may appear
as incontinence or urinating during
sex, specifically during orgasm. Or in some women's cases, they have
always been "very very wet"
during arousal and climax.
Here are a few tips:
Empty your bladder first. The
feeling just
before ejaculating is
similar to the feeling you have when you have to pee, but you want the
urge to come on as a result of arousal and not a full bladder.
Practice in a comfortable
place. This
suggestion is very
important so that you are relaxed and ready when
the feel the urge to "release". A few places to try to
practice may be in the bath or while sitting on the toilet. The main
thing is to drop your apprehensions and literally "go with the
flow"!
Usually ejaculation will come
on as a result of
stimulating the paraurethral glands
and/or the g-spot (urethral
sponge).
Stimulating the g-spot for
any length of time
will be
easiest to do with a dildo or vibrator.
Any toy that is firm, or one
that is curved
for g-spot stimulation will do. Use a lot of clitoral stimulation,
but also stimulate your
urethra by massaging inside the top of your vagina both around the
opening and inside a few inches. Many women find urethral stimulation
very pleasant in and of itself. Keeping up the clitoral stimulation you
may also want to try and stimulate the g-spot
.
Vary the strokes and the
pressure and
experiment with
what feels good. As you are doing this you may feel the urge to urinate
(along with
feeling very excited and hot!). This happens
just prior to ejaculating. At this point as we said before, just "go
with the flow" and let it all out.
It's difficult to
describe
precise specific instructions for Female Ejaculation, however, we
do carry a great DVD on the subject, GUSH:
Official Guide to G-Spot & Female Ejaculation. It is an in
depth how-to, with actual
ejaculation footage. And
remember,
as with all matters of sexual response and
behavior, try it... if you like it, do it again! If you don't
like it,
don't do it anymore!
From "Better Sex
for Women" by Dr. Mia Rose
Loud
Oragsms: Using your Voice for your
Best Orgasm Ever
Loud orgasms are powerful orgasms that
occur when you
engage your voice with deep belly sounds when climaxing. The more you
let go and the more vocal you become during lovemaking, the better your
chances of having your best orgasm ever.
Allowing themselves the pleasure of moaning
orgasms can sometimes be
really difficult for women. Shyness and feelings of insecurity can
contribute to staying silent between the sheets. The irony is that men
generally find vocal women a real turn-on and simply love their
partners to get loud.
The
free flow of this energy is essential to feeling more
pleasure. Some women even report spontaneous orgasms, multi-orgasms and
female
ejaculation when they allow themselves to make deep belly sounds
while arousal is building.
If you're feeling particularly vulnerable
around this
issue, practice making sounds during solo sex first. Breathe deeply
into your belly through-out self-pleasure. Focus on low and deep tones
as they come from way down in your body cavity and allow the best
orgasmic response to come forth. With practice you will find that the
energy of loud orgasms vibrate your genitals and this energy moves
through-out your entire body.
When you have succeeded in improving the
quality of your
orgasms during solo sex, give yourself permission during intercourse to
moan, hum, groan, sing and shout your way to ecstasy and bliss.
Your lover will thank you too!
Click
on
above photo for
an example from DVD
GUSH: Official Guide to G-Spt & Female Ejaculation
Proving again that
there really IS a G-spot, sexologist and sexual icon, Dr. Carol Queen,
leads viewers on a guided and often wet
tour of G-spot stimulation in a frank yet approachable manner.
Featuring real-life couples and sex professionals, this DVD provides
viewers with all the tools needed for self-exploration and partner
exploration, including anatomical information and techniques that
will offer a guaranteed explosion as they search for the elusive G-spot.
Includes scenes directed by AVN award-winning directors Jackie
Strano and Shar Rednour and a full hour of bonus footage including cast
interviews, G-spot hunting with Dr. Queen, and an educational slide
show from Sheri Winston.
DVD is 90 minutes
GUSH:
Female
Ejaculation & G-Spot
DVD Item
#670-3198
Price: $18.95
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